A Message To Incels

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Battle of the Sexes

Guys, there is no battle of the sexes. There is no such thing as women wanting other things than men being attracted to them, pursuing them, or putting obstacles so that men can’t get what they want. Men and women want the same things. There is no battle of the sexes. There is only the disparity between what men believe women want and what women actually want.

And for women, it’s only a matter of recognizing that there is no battle of the sexes, ladies. There is only a disparity between what you believe men want and what men actually want. But it’s much easier to figure out for women.

Getting Rid of the Chasm

Now for men who believe that they cannot attract women, what I’d like for you to consider are these four things that all women are attracted to, and I can prove it. You ready?

There is no battle of the sexes. There is only the disparity between what you believe women want and what women actually want. In other words, for a lot of men who are unable and believe they are unable to attract women despite their looks, there’s a disparity, there’s a chasm between what they believe women want and what women actually want. There’s a distance, there’s a chasm, there’s a huge disparity for men, despite their looks, who are able to attract women, who are successful with women. Successful, meaning they are able to attract women again and again and again, they’re continuously successfully attractive and attracted. That chasm doesn’t exist. That chasm for those men who believe that they can and do attract women, there is no chasm. There is no distance between what they believe women want and what women actually want. In other words, and in simpler terms, they appreciate what women want, and so there is no disparity. They know what women want.

Now, what I do want to share with you, pay attention to this. 

The 4 Things All Women Are Attracted To in Men

I’m going to share with you four things that all women who are attracted to men recognize. These men have these four things, there are four traits, four characteristics. You just have to firstly recognize that there is no battle of the sexes. Women want the same thing you want. They want someone who they can cherish, whom they can admire and adore, and respect, and be with, and be themselves with. They don’t want emotional, psychological, or physical punishment for being who they are. They want someone who they can be in bed with, who knows what they’re doing when they’re in a relationship, who can take the lead.

The First One

Number one, just because women want the same things that men want, and men want the same things that women want, it doesn’t mean that women are attracted in the same way that men are aroused and attracted and that men are attracted in the same way as women are attracted and aroused. Men and women project. It’s something we do psychologically, and we do it for many different reasons. We’re not going to go into it, but we project onto others our perceptions of the world. 

Projection

Men project, they imagine that they’re really attracted to someone who’s beautiful; therefore, beauty must be an attractant. So, they’re going to be beautiful, they’re going to dress up, dress well, they’re going to fix their hair, wear jewelry, they’re going to look more powerful, they’re going to look better, they’re going to pretend to be faster, stronger, wealthier, more powerful than they actually are so theycan get the girl. Because men project that because beauty is an attractant, and so if they’re beautiful or they appear beautiful or they appear good-looking, they’re going to get the girl easily. And then they see this hot girl who’s not attracted to any man, so they imagine, “Well, wow, beauty must be such a standard. You must have to be really beautiful to be able to get anybody.” Men project. Let’s just keep this in this area. You are projecting. The truth is, women need to be aroused. You’re projecting. Just because someone’s beautiful, you’re aroused. Women also need to be aroused, but they are aroused in a different way. 

How Far Looking Good Can Get You

Looks will get you about 20 seconds into a conversation, until which time you will need to demonstrate who you are as a person. And you must demonstrate the four things I want to talk about, and they must imagine you as someone who’s worthwhile in bed, kind of like a boat is seaworthy. If a boat is not seaworthy, you shouldn’t be taken out to the sea. It’ll sink. You have to be sex-worthy. You have to appear as if you’re going to know what you’re going to do in bed by merely interacting with you. So, I’m running out of time, so the four things that you must demonstrate that all women are attracted to in a man is:

Number one, he must demonstrate he loves, honors, and respects himself.
Number two, he must love, honor, and admire women. He must appreciate women for being women. He must love women, and women will recognize that if you appreciate them because they are women, they will do women things, just like a woman whose relationship-worthy must recognize that a man will do man things, and so she must appreciate the man. She must demonstrate appreciation for the man for the man to remain attracted. For a woman, she needs this at the outset.

The Third

Number three, he must demonstrate his ability or desire to lead the interaction. Women evolved to follow a man’s lead. They follow a man’s lead. If a man doesn’t feel he’s good enough, she’ll follow your lead and not feel you’re good enough. If the man thinks he’s not worthwhile, she’ll follow your lead and think you’re not worthwhile. Women do not want to be bothered, but they do want to be hot and bothered. You have to know what you’re doing. You have to demonstrate your desire to lead the interaction and to escalate it on your own accord.

The Fourth

And finally, number four, the most important thing, once you demonstrate those three things, you must demonstrate your interest in her as an individual. You must demonstrate you’re interested in her as an individual. You must demonstrate you have a desire to lead the interaction and to escalate it further. You have to love and honor and appreciate women, and you have to demonstrate your love, honor, and appreciate yourself. 

These are four things all women love in the man whom they are attracted. If they cannot demonstrate these four things, they will lose attraction for them.