Here are the top 3 things people take for granted in relationships… and it’s also important to note that being, and therefore feeling, taken for granted is the death-knell of every loving relationship. Even more tragic than that is it’s the standard rather than the exception. Overwhelmingly so. It’s endemic, because of this reason: When […]
The all-important skill you need so you can have mind-bogglingly incredible relationships is the skill of negotiation. All of communication is a negotiation. You don’t see it that way because you have the presumption a negotiation is when you’re drafting contracts, coming to agreements, or creating transactions… …sounds like all of communication to me. At […]
There are 4 levels of significance you have with someone. ✨ This delineation of their “significance” to you clarifies in your mind *how* you ‘build’ relationships. ✨ How I ‘build’ relationships goes through what I refer to as the “Intimacy Model” of relationships. ✨ The Intimacy Model is different from the standard model of relationships […]
Redditer asks: “Myself (27m) and my partner (25f) have been living together with our child for about 3 years now about same time for longevity of the relationship my partner wants to possibly and will more than likely go live with her other partner (33m) for half of the year while in school and come […]
A saboteur is one who engages in sabotage. You could be in a relationship with one and here’s how to check! A saboteur isn’t one who necessarily does it consciously or out of spite. Often, they do it without their awareness. Also, it’s so commonplace in relationships, it’s essentially granted as a phenomena that is […]
More than likely, and you’re not aware of this, you are in a codependent relationship. Here’s how you know this and prove this is true… The term ‘codependency’ is used in the area of intervention in addiction where there’s a circular relationship between people. In this circular relationship, there’s someone who’s a giver who doesn’t […]
This article debunks 12 myths about open relationships, emphasizing the importance of open communication, managing expectations, and understanding that love isn’t limited to one person.
On a tweet by Adina Rivers, Jax Solomon responds:
